Five Ways To Make Safer And Hotter S*x
One of the biggest complaints that people have about practicing safe
s*x is that doing so “kills the mood.” However, that doesn’t have to be
the case.Changing the way that you think about condoms and other barriers can change them from mood killers to mood makers. Want to make intercourse with your partner even hotter? Start eroticizing self-care.
1. I Want You To Want Me
Communication is an important part of practicing safer s*x. That doesn’t just mean talking about condom use and testing history. It also means talking about what you want from your partner, and what you want to do with them. It means showing them you’re enthusiastic about being with them and learning that they feel the same way about you. There’s nothing hotter than wanting someone who wants you back.
2. No Barrier To Pleasure
If you assume that condoms and other barriers are going to be a part of your sessions with your partner no matter what, then they aren’t barriers to pleasure.
They are gateways to pleasure. Instead of condoms feeling like interruptions, taking one out becomes a way of escalating things to a more intimate level.
Hearing a condom packet tear open can become as erotic as a lover’s sigh, because you know where things are going next.
3. Make Application Exciting
Putting a condom on, or taking out a barrier, doesn’t have to just be a means to an end. It can be an end in itself. Try putting a condom on your partner with your mouth or teasing them with the fingers of a glove. Make latex an accessory to love.
4. Spice Things Up
Condom companies are manufacturing a growing number of condoms designed not just to make intercourse safer but also to make it more exciting. Although you want to be careful not to use novelty condoms, colored condoms, glow in the dark condoms, and condoms with bumps, interesting lubricants, and even vibrating rings are available to spice things up a little. Try out different options and see what you like. Motivate yourselfs to find new ways to liven up your play.
5. Use Safety as an Invitation to Explore
Maybe being safe is also an invitation to exploring other hot options. Intercourse isn’t just about penetration or stimulation of specific body parts. It’s about intimacy and connection, and there are many ways that people can find pleasure that don’t require thinking about STDs. From role play and bondage to mutual masturbation or even necking on the couch, let your interest in safety become an invitation to creativity – both inside the bedroom and out.
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